Nicola Harris (00:03.38)
Hello everyone and welcome back to another episode of the Economy of Soul. I am so thrilled to have my dear friend Kelly Inglis with us today. She is a Reiki practitioner, spiritual mentor and intuitive guide who helps clients reconnect with their inner wisdom, their spirit guides and soul purpose. Through energy healing and deeply intuitive sessions, she supports those on a path of self-trust, clarity and transformation.
Her work at Soul Restyled is all about guiding others home to themselves, emotionally, energetically, and spiritually. I am so excited to have you here today, Kelly. Kelly has been like my spiritual mentor for the last few years, and I absolutely love getting readings done for my birthday, actually. And I just, I felt so called to have you here on the show because so much of the work that...
I do, but also what my clients are doing is really about developing that piece of self trust and starting to call in their own intuitive gifts to be able to utilize it in their business. So I'm really excited for our conversation today because we're going to talk a little bit about how you can really begin to tap into your gifts, tap into sort of that inner knowing.
and really develop out that self-trust that Kelly, you know, helps you really, really develop. So thank you so much for being here.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (01:33.816)
Thank you so much for having me. It's just, it's such an honor to be here with you.
Nicola Harris (01:36.618)
Yeah, amazing. Okay, so why don't you start off by just telling us a little bit about who you are and how you really began to tap into spirit. Because I think it's such a, it's, mean, we all have access to that within ourselves, but your gifts are obviously very heightened.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (01:54.882)
They are heightened. It's interesting. like you said, I'm the Reiki Practitioner Spiritual Mentor. I'm the intuitive guide. My work is deeply rooted in helping people connect back into themselves, into the intuition, into the energy.
and their guides. And for me, spirit is the unseen intelligence that flows through all things that is here. It's not just through the people, it's through anything that holds energy and everything is energy. It's source, it's higher self, it's our team, it's our guides, the being and energies that always are supporting us. And it's interesting because we can forget sometimes that they're there.
And they never leave us, it never leaves us. We just have to be open to be receiving it, you know? My connection to spirit was a gradual thing. It wasn't some lightning bolt that came down and hit me like a ton of bricks. It started when I was eight. I turned it off for many, many years. And when I entered my 30th time here, Earthside,
Nicola Harris (02:44.48)
you
Kellie - Soul Restyled (03:06.274)
the soft whisper started to come through and I realized where I was supposed to be going and what I was supposed to be doing. So through my own healing journey, I realized doing the work that I am here for a bigger purpose and I'm here to support and facilitate.
other people's healing journey. Not that I do the healing for them, but I give them the space. I hold the space for them to go on their own journey. That's kind of how it all started. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (03:35.52)
That's so beautiful. Yeah, that's so powerful. And I love, I think that there is so much in the world right now that sort of asks us to outsource that to others like that internal power. And I think it's so true, you really give the gift of coming back home to the understanding of your own connection to the divine and however it is that you really explain that for yourself. So
That's beautiful. So can you share a little bit about how your like those whispers were they sort of a bodily knowing? Was it like actually words coming through like an actual whisper? Like what did that sort of look like for you?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (04:19.87)
That's a great question because it's going to be, it's really different for all of us. For me personally, it was little nudges or that feeling in your gut that you're hearing something or you're feeling something is off or it's right.
it's good or it's bad. And for me, they started, they started as soft whispers. There was something very specific in my life that I was ignoring. And they started, know, spirit started nudging me a little bit. And finally I said, okay, what do you need me to know? And this nudges got quite hard and the whispers were not whispers anymore. And I made a significant change in my life.
Nicola Harris (04:59.616)
you
Kellie - Soul Restyled (05:10.686)
And it changed everything for me. It changed who I was. It changed how I be. It changed how I saw things, how I viewed things, how I engaged.
Nicola Harris (05:24.298)
Mm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (05:25.926)
And it was, it got to be quite drastic for me. I think once it's, you know, I think when we, when we open that door with spirit, I kind of call it Pandora's box because there's a lot that comes with it. There is.
healing, is things that conditioning that we've probably ignored for a really long time, things that didn't jive with who we were, but we thought that's just what we had to do and how we needed to be. And there's a place with spirit where we can, we can resolve these things, but it takes commitment. takes dedication. It takes discipline to get to that space.
Nicola Harris (06:10.304)
It's so beautiful and it's so true because I feel like for my own self it was really the understanding of all of a sudden going, that's the truth of what's there and having to then make a decision of going I'm either going to continue to ignore it and sort of walk through my life blindly or I'm gonna have to honor what is coming through for me and that was hard. It was not an easy journey.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (06:37.57)
Yes.
Yes, I love that you say that because I think what you know spirit, they spirit is very gentle with us. They don't they don't push too hard until we're ready for it or we need sometimes we need a rude awakening on things. And what spirit said to me is you can't have this and that.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (07:04.502)
You can choose, you can have either, but you can't have both can't exist in the same space. And it was that moment, that pivotal moment for me that I thought, okay, I get it. Thank you for giving me that. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (07:08.212)
Mmm.
Nicola Harris (07:16.114)
I get it. Yeah. And I feel like a lot of people are sort of afraid sometimes to step into that understanding of like, there's going to be moments I imagine, you know, I like to call those tower moments of like, you're either going to continue or you're going to have to make a decision. And that's the beautiful thing. But I feel like when you know that you are supported, you know,
outside of just you being a human being walking around on this earth, all of a sudden it becomes like this co-creation really with your team. Right? Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (07:51.566)
Yes, yes. In the moment that you feel most alone, you feel this wild support, this pressure holding you up. That you can do it. You can make the tough decisions. You can walk with fear and still have faith. You can do it.
Nicola Harris (07:55.914)
Mmm.
Nicola Harris (08:14.976)
Mmm.
It's so good to know that really, you know, like just to have that understanding. I love that so much. Let's talk a little bit about intuition because intuition is a tool that I use in my business all the time. And sometimes it doesn't make a lot of sense to people because they're like, well, we're so conditioned to seek support.
from people who know more than us, who are smarter, who maybe have letters behind their name. But we aren't really conditioned to listen internally in terms of seeking guidance. Like, how can someone really begin to tap in more closely to their intuition and even to their spirit guides for guidance and support?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (09:01.346)
Yeah, so what I describe the first step of intuition as listening. We need to quiet the mind and we need to step into the heart space. If we can quiet the mind, so we quiet the mind, we quiet the external noise. There's always going to be noise. And we ask our body, how do I feel right now?
Do I feel anxious? Do I feel excited? Do I feel sad? Do I feel nervous? Do I feel joy? And what is bringing that to us? So if we can actually listen, so we settle ourselves and we listen for a moment, that's where it kind of starts. And I always, I describe intuition as cool, calm, and collected.
We know this from other and I can't think of where else I know this from, but we've heard this in life. Be cool, calm and collected. This is how we want to operate in our businesses. This is how we want to operate as people. This is how our intuition operates because it's familiar to us. We know it. We just avoid it. We say that that can't be right.
practices like meditation, journaling, just sitting in silence and offering ourselves space to receive. You know, it can be as simple as, know, if you want to do a meditation, you can just say out loud, I'm here to receive guidance.
Nicola Harris (10:29.586)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (10:44.406)
and just see what kind of flows through your body. You might hear things, you might feel things in your body. You might, something might make you feel uncomfortable. And that too is something to look into. There's just, there's a multitude of ways that we can lean into the intuition. But the first step always is listen. Quiet yourself, quiet the world, and just listen.
Nicola Harris (11:06.208)
you
Nicola Harris (11:12.192)
It seems so profoundly simple and yet it really is, it's the place, it's the ground, it's the foundation of being able to hear yourself, right? And it's amazing to me that we spend so much time in our lives doing all of these other things. And very rarely do we spend even five minutes a day just really getting quiet.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (11:27.032)
Yes. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (11:40.554)
to be able to hear what's coming through. But I love, because you're probably the same as me. I feel like I'm in constant prayer. I say my life is just a living prayer. I am having conversations all day long with my team and being like, OK, so I see where you're trying to pull me, you know, and really trying to surrender control, which has been probably one of the hardest edges for me as someone who experienced trauma in my childhood. Control was
Kellie - Soul Restyled (11:53.422)
He does.
Nicola Harris (12:10.512)
the way in which I could really try to build safety in my world. So I definitely found as I developed a relationship with my internal intuition, with God, with my knowing, with all of it, with my guides, I had to begin the process of really surrendering. Sometimes things didn't work out exactly the way that I thought they were going to work out, but it ended up being better, even though
Kellie - Soul Restyled (12:39.875)
Yes.
Nicola Harris (12:40.082)
It was challenging, right?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (12:43.566)
Well, and I think too, and I know some of the background for you, and I think that the pause is okay too.
Nicola Harris (12:53.504)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (12:55.458)
You know, we listen and it's okay to pause that knee jerk reaction that we need to respond right away or we need to have answers or this or that. It's okay to pause for a second and say, I need a day to or maybe it's a couple of days, whatever it is to you that you can pause and think about it and assess 24 hours later. Once that emotion has settled, you know, we've gone through
Nicola Harris (13:08.543)
Mm.
Nicola Harris (13:23.091)
Mm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (13:25.552)
the angry and the sad and the lower vibration and then we can say, okay, so now that the human in me has gone through this, what is this actually?
Nicola Harris (13:38.848)
That's so profound, Kelly. Like really understanding that your human is going to have these wild up and downs, but that coming back to yourself is calm. think that that's such an important takeaway for people because it shouldn't feel chaotic. Right? Your knowing isn't chaotic. It's subtle. Sometimes it's quiet, but it's stable. Right? Yeah. Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (14:06.562)
Yes, yes, exactly. That's it.
Nicola Harris (14:08.382)
I love that. And just inviting people into the pause. mean, how often do we hear that? How often, you know, it's like make a quick decision, move fast. You know, it's like onto the next thing constantly, always. But you're so right in that taking a moment, taking a breath, and just like allowing it to happen as you are sort of staying inside of yourself really is, it's so sacred really.
to be able to develop a practice around that. Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (14:38.733)
it ends.
Yeah, it is. I think just to touch on the practice for a moment, it's very easy for us once we get into the practice and things are working, that we let the practice slip or we become complacent and we say, yeah, I'm going to meditate, going to do this, going to do that. And it becomes more of like a checklist than a practice.
Nicola Harris (14:46.964)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (14:57.788)
yeah.
Nicola Harris (15:07.648)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (15:10.822)
And you know, it's usually the practice lasts for I would say like three to four months and then people start to slip. And then they say, well, my life isn't working anymore, Kelly. OK. And I call it going back to the basics. This is your practice. What have you you've gotten complacent because it's been working, but it's only it only works because we're engaged in the practice.
Nicola Harris (15:18.442)
Mmm.
Nicola Harris (15:28.884)
Hmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (15:40.96)
It can't be a checklist. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (15:42.218)
Yeah. It's like a lifestyle really. It's like that you move through the world connected. And certainly we get busy and gosh, we're infiltrated with information and to-do lists and busyness that has nothing to do with us stopping and taking the time. But you're right. The more that you allow that to be part of how you move through the world.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (15:51.49)
Yes.
Nicola Harris (16:08.372)
the easier it becomes for you to navigate the ups and downs that are just inevitably going to come with with being alive. Right. So yeah, I love that. Yeah. The practice. Yeah. It's so, so important. Okay. Let's talk a little bit about building a business that's soul led because the entire principle obviously of this podcast and the work that I do is really tapping into
Kellie - Soul Restyled (16:17.614)
100%. Yeah. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (16:32.638)
the notion that we can build economy for ourselves through what our soul's mission is versus us just going, I could just build a business based on something random that is just going to make me money, which is sort of the narrative that a lot of us have been fed. I mean, I certainly know, you know, throughout my younger years, was like just, you know, either get a job that pays good money or just find something to do. Right. But.
As I went through my own healing journey, I was like, wait a minute, there are these nudges that are coming on that will not, know, constantly when I was washing dishes, that's when it would come to me. It was just like, you're not, you're not getting out of this. So you're going to have to decide when you're going to do this. But I think building that soul led business, it often requires like some very different principles, things like self trust, which is definitely what you teach and sovereignty. So how can you really build
Kellie - Soul Restyled (16:57.646)
again.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (17:25.144)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (17:25.256)
a relationship with Spirit to enhance your business.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (17:31.928)
Yeah, I love this question because and it's very thought provoking. It was even thought provoking for me because I've been in this for a little bit. I thought, like, let's go back to what what I'm creating here. And I mean, the relationship with spirit brings us back to our truth. It's in our business. It's easy for us to get caught up in what we're doing. And to your point, the strategies of what should work.
Nicola Harris (17:37.525)
Awesome.
Nicola Harris (17:46.432)
Mm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (18:02.094)
what success is supposed to look like. But when we're connected to spirit, we remember that each of our path is our path. And the alignment always beats algorithm. So if you stick true to you, you will succeed. I guess, mean, success looks really different to each of us. Success to me is
Nicola Harris (18:04.8)
you
Kellie - Soul Restyled (18:31.842)
you know, having a book full of clients. It's having the opportunities to come on podcasts. It's, you know, doing keynote speaking that I can share this message just to get, I mean, my whole purpose is to make people feel good. Life is not supposed to be as hard as it is here for so many of us. And my goal is to help people see.
differently, maybe through a different lens or a different view as they come home to themselves. that, you know, the algorithm will work for you in business if you are driving from your purpose, like your soul, what you're actually here to be doing.
Nicola Harris (19:14.08)
It's and it's you know, I Obviously I've been in business for over 20 years now So I feel like I've seen pretty much all of the things like, you know I started this business and there wasn't even social media yet, which is wild You know, we had to shake hands to do business and meet people it was you know in real life It was it was totally a different a different thing and I look at a lot of these principles and I think that is That could work
100 % there are strategies out there that are going to work for your growth that are going to ensure that your your books are full and Then there is just I totally agree that there's this almost a filter Like that that I was because I was also trying to think like how do I utilize it like in my own self? But it almost becomes like a filter that you have to just check it through They have to just go is this right for me?
and totally allow that intuitive part of you to say either yes or no. like, do you, why do you think, or I guess, I certainly didn't put this on our questions, but why, do you have any thoughts about why do you think that we don't automatically do that?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (20:32.568)
Well, and it's ego versus soul, right? So the ego, we all have ego. We have to, we're human. Ego is not always bad, but there's a piece of ego that drives us by fear and comparison. And you have to do this to fit in. You have to do this to succeed. And soul says,
Nicola Harris (20:34.618)
Mmm. Mmm. Mmm.
Nicola Harris (20:41.246)
Mm-hmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (20:57.336)
Can we just get back on track here? Can we just get back to regular programming for the soul side and drive from that space instead? And I can tell you, I remember when I started my business, I was very hooked on the likes and how many followers do I have? And I can speak from experience that the followers don't really matter.
I would rather have less followers and people who resonate with what I share in this world than to have 100,000 followers that I have no engagement with.
Nicola Harris (21:27.86)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (21:36.767)
Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (21:38.274)
So if we can get through, if we can get past that ego piece, it takes some new conditioning, new ways of being and understanding. But if we can get through that, you're golden.
Nicola Harris (21:45.46)
Mmm.
Nicola Harris (21:57.248)
That's such an important part of the conversation that I didn't even think about in terms of like how we navigate it, like how we are allowing that filter to exist to land in a growth strategy that works for our souls. And I agree, it is the ego. I've never thought of it like that in terms of like so black and white, but it's completely true because...
It is the separation that a lot of these strategies try to create in those vanity metrics and in like, well, success has to look like this, this, this, and this. And it's like, no, that's all bullshit. Maybe that will work for you. And also maybe that's not what you want at all.
Yeah, I think that that's really important.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (22:46.328)
Totally. Yeah. It looks different to all of us, right? And I remember the nights that I used to stay awake and, you know, checking how many followers I have and the likes and having those conversations with, you know, my family and my friends. And I sleep very well. Not worrying about any of that, because I know that I am serving in the way that I'm supposed to serve.
Nicola Harris (23:08.297)
you
Kellie - Soul Restyled (23:15.054)
the people who need, if I posted that day or I did a reel that day, the people who need that are going to see that.
Nicola Harris (23:22.884)
that's beautiful. That's a beautiful way to reframe detaching from that external validation that our ego is seeking all of the time. Yeah. Yeah, that's really, yeah, that's really important. And it's hard. Like, it's not easy sometimes because we get caught up in it all the time. And again, because when you're building a business, you're infiltrated with, you know, do these 10 steps and...
Kellie - Soul Restyled (23:33.634)
Yes. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (23:49.866)
here's my award winning year, it's gonna land you 18 clients in the next two minutes. We're infiltrated by that information. And again, some of it may be beneficial, but it's hard to know. But a lot of it is really framed around that person who has had success in one way. But again, if we're not putting it through the filter of our own soul.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (23:51.566)
Thank you.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (24:08.526)
totally.
Nicola Harris (24:13.664)
to really gather if that makes sense for us. It definitely can sometimes lead us in the wrong direction, that's for sure. So yeah. OK.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (24:22.776)
Totally. And don't get me wrong, I have my moments. We all have our moments. Exactly. So I'm not saying that I never triggered and nothing ever goes wrong for me, but in the grand scheme of things, is that one thing going to be the thing that tells you that you made it or you didn't make it? I would hope not. I would hope.
Nicola Harris (24:25.481)
yeah. of course we do. We're still human. Right? We're still human.
You
Nicola Harris (24:42.544)
Mm-hmm. Yeah, would hope not to. Absolutely. absolutely. Okay, let's talk a little bit about personal soul blueprint. So this is something that I believe in and I teach and I talk to clients a lot about anchoring into the reason that they really came to earth. For some people, it's not to start a business. So it's not necessarily that that's everyone's blueprint.
But a lot of us have come here with a very big mission to fulfill and to teach and to lead in a specific way. How do you begin, like how do believe that we begin to cultivate an alignment into that?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (25:11.949)
No.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (25:30.904)
So for me, like our soul blueprint is always with us. It's always been with us. It will always be with us. And we're taught to ignore it. So the first step, think cultivating alignment starts with remembering who we are underneath the conditioning that we've had.
Nicola Harris (25:40.85)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (25:52.994)
When we speak about conditioning, this obviously goes back to childhood and especially in the spiritual space, I think, is that we've been taught that spirituality is woo woo. And for a long time, it wasn't really accepted. It was witchcraft, do not bring that into this house. And it's changed a lot, I would say, over the last...
Nicola Harris (26:06.112)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (26:20.398)
I would say over the last like five to ten years that it's a little bit more socially accepted that people are spiritual and So when we talk about like the conditioning we have to get beneath it, so how do we actually feel? Not what we think What energizes us what drains us what feels like home in the body and it's if we can get into
Nicola Harris (26:21.962)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (26:38.336)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (26:48.608)
understanding who this is in the body, we can start to work on that soul blueprint in the way that we it was intended.
Nicola Harris (26:58.432)
you
Because I feel like so many people and I don't know if you have this with your clients as well, they feel lost in it. They're like, I know that I meant for more. Like I hear that a lot. I know that I meant for more. I just, don't know what that is. I don't even know where to start. So how do you help clients kind of connect into that? That there's a knowing, but they don't know how to really get there.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (27:29.484)
Yeah, yeah. tools like energy healing, somatic work, working with our guides and kind of understanding layers of us gets us into that work. So what we need to do is give ourselves permission to evolve. To not stay.
Nicola Harris (27:48.0)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (27:53.024)
And it's not saying that there's anything, there's nothing wrong with staying where you are, but the soul wants to evolve. So that piece within us, actually, it's just actually on the outside of us. Just, it's a thin layer, our soul is on the outside. And our blueprint isn't fixed. So it's a living, breathing expression of our soul's truth. And it's okay for it to look
Nicola Harris (28:08.448)
Mm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (28:23.734)
different for you, right? I can't tell you what your soul blueprint is. But we can figure out what it is through some of this work, through talking with spirit, through energy healing, through Reiki practice, through somatic healing. It's all about this building this knowing of who...
Nicola Harris (28:24.49)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (28:29.012)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (28:33.15)
Mm-hmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (28:50.114)
This is who feels what feels good, who feels good. Where do we feel safe? In those safe spaces, that's where we find a ton of answers. It's with the people, it's with the thoughts that we have.
Nicola Harris (29:00.372)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (29:05.184)
Safety is such an important piece. It's funny because when I started my first corporate career, I was really big on developing because I did culture and people development. And so I was really big on psychological safety of like making sure that people are heard, their ideas are shared, that there is a space where we all get to bring our strengths.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (29:24.664)
Yes.
Nicola Harris (29:31.046)
and also some of our weaknesses and that those are propped up by those that are around us instead of being in a group think environment and where everyone is just agreeing with each other. And I never really realized that pretty much the last 20 years all I've really been doing is try to create safety not only for myself but for other people. And I think it's this thing that when I talk to people anyways it's not the thing that's at the forefront of
how they're navigating throughout their day to day. They're not going, they're not filtering through that of going, does this feel safe for me? We still seem so attached to the idea that is this like gonna further me or is this gonna be successful for me? Like it's still that ego paradigm that we're tapping into versus going, is this safe? Is this like holy for me?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (30:26.232)
Yeah.
Nicola Harris (30:27.764)
Does this feel good? And I love that you bring the body into it because obviously that's a lot of the work I do. But the body absolutely gives us all of those signals at any given moment throughout the day. Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (30:36.046)
Canada.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (30:41.75)
Yeah, well the interesting thing too is so when we look at the body, so when we're looking at the physical space, this is because something emotionally or mentally is being ignored.
Nicola Harris (30:53.312)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (30:55.662)
So it pushes, then intuition, soul, spirit pushes it into the body. So maybe now we can recognize it.
Nicola Harris (31:03.936)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (31:06.74)
and it's okay for it to come into the physical and the more we do the work, the more we lean in, the quicker we can catch it.
Nicola Harris (31:17.152)
Mmm, yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (31:20.75)
right? Oh, this feels really good. Oh, this does not feel good. You know, and we can. red flag. Yes. And it's interesting, like when I when I speak to spirit about the soul, all our soul wants us to do. if there's something not going.
Nicola Harris (31:20.768)
Alert. Yeah. Red flag. Walk in red flag. I'm out of here. Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (31:45.144)
quite right or something we want to change. What our soul wants us to do is acknowledge it, understand it, and move through it. And the soul says, can you just move faster this time? Just a little bit. And by doing the work, that's how we learn how to move faster.
Nicola Harris (31:53.152)
Mmm.
Nicola Harris (31:59.104)
Mmm.
Nicola Harris (32:07.412)
Yeah, that's beautiful.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (32:09.09)
be stuck less, move a little bit more, grow, evolve, transform. And that's exactly what the soul wants us to do.
Nicola Harris (32:12.56)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Yeah, allow that time to kind of collapse in between, right? Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (32:21.356)
Yes. Yeah. Instead of a year, can it be six months? Instead of six months, can it be six weeks? Instead of six weeks, six days this time. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (32:26.4)
Mm-hmm. Let's get down to six seconds, people. We're just filtering it through. Right? my gosh. But it's so true, because I think that things that used to take me so long to sit with and process, because that's been developed, now takes me far less time. And because there's been a...
Kellie - Soul Restyled (32:34.318)
Do it.
Nicola Harris (32:56.068)
an active relationship development in my self-trust because I trust that the activation takes less time, right? It's like, okay, we're here and we're going to trust it and then we're moving on, right? And so I think that that's a beautiful skill to really develop of going, okay, less and less time so that you absolutely aren't staying in those cycles for years.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (33:07.704)
Yes.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (33:12.044)
Yeah.
Nicola Harris (33:23.028)
Right? And like guilty is charged over here. There's some cycles that I'm like, get me off the hamster wheel. I'm ready. I'm complete. I'm complete spirit. Thank you very much.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (33:23.5)
Yeah. Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (33:31.118)
Right.
Yes, yes, but you know what always happens is, so we have certain situations in our lives that...
it's, you know, we have to keep cycling through it. So I always say that we are like onions. So you peel back a layer and we do the work, we do the healing and life feels really good. And then it comes back. It rears its ugly head, most likely in a different situation with different people. But it comes back again and you're like, no, no, I already did that. And spirit says, we know. But this is part, this is also part of.
your blueprint is that we need you to grow in this space.
Nicola Harris (34:19.456)
I think that's like, I love that because I personally believe that so much of what we experience in life is part, it's for us. Like I obviously have had lots of trauma in my life as a child, but then also as an adult. And remember thinking constantly like this is here for me. It's here for, it's my soul needs to move through this in order for me to do something with it. Like,
I always felt like that was a part of it. Do your clients, do you find that you help them with that understanding that like even the hard things that happen, even the things that don't work out the way that we thought, thought that they should, that's still part of the blueprint.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (35:09.272)
Totally, yeah. And I think it's hard, mean, depending on the situation, it's really hard for people to understand sometimes why some things have happened to them. And there's not, in some of these moments, there's not a lot of comfort that you can provide, but that comfort comes through the work and being able to understand.
Nicola Harris (35:18.996)
Mm-hmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (35:36.034)
that something wasn't meant to happen or something wasn't meant to be in this moment at this time. And that's okay too. And it comes a lot, I think it comes back to, I'm referring to relationships that don't work. When we lose babies, when we go through these really traumatic experiences.
While we don't understand it in the moment, we will eventually understand it. And it's not, I think it's sometimes too part of that conditioning that we've had that this is what life is supposed to look like. And if you don't have this exact life, you have failed. You haven't failed. You're on your soul journey, not.
what has been dictated to us or what we've been told is acceptable by society. We need to be able to move beyond that.
Nicola Harris (36:33.664)
Mm.
Nicola Harris (36:37.92)
like gave me goosebumps because I think that's like, it's it. That's it in so many ways is that if we are not on this singular track that looks like checking boxes and doing the things that we are being fed back that we have failed in some way. And that just, it's dangerous really when you think about it in that, in that way because
Kellie - Soul Restyled (37:06.733)
Yeah.
Nicola Harris (37:07.676)
there are millions of different ways that we could each individually impact this world and very few I think need to be on that straight check-in-box path, you know? And it's...
Kellie - Soul Restyled (37:23.522)
Yeah.
Nicola Harris (37:26.718)
It's wild that we sort of all agreed to this without really even our understanding. But that is part, I think, of the healing now is unpacking some of that around what success and even just what a fulfilling life feels like to you without any construct being fed to us in terms of how that needs to look.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (37:46.275)
Yes.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (37:55.246)
100%. 100%. You define your life.
Nicola Harris (37:55.434)
Yeah.
You define your life. Yeah. You define your life. Yeah. So tell me how you would define your life. Like if you could say, this is what, if I could just close my eyes and I would wake up feeling like I've arrived, what would that look like for you?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (38:02.349)
You decide.
Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (38:24.654)
I think I have arrived. I think that like if we're like talking like in a business standpoint and even in a life standpoint, like success for me is defined by freedom. I have the freedom to live in alignment with exactly who I am.
Nicola Harris (38:27.788)
Nicola Harris (38:40.288)
Mm.
Nicola Harris (38:44.512)
Mmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (38:46.806)
and to serve from that place. you know, I've had this song in my head, it's Belinda Carlisle, Heaven is a Place on Earth. I have had this song in my head since I was about five. So we're talking 35 years. This song just plays on repeat in my head all day long. And I have my heaven on earth with the work that I do. It is my piece. It is my little place here that I get to
Nicola Harris (39:12.288)
Mm-hmm.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (39:16.91)
arrive. get to do this work with people.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (39:26.126)
It blows my mind on a regular basis that I actually get to do this work. But I'm grateful and the work is soft. It's, you know, when my clients are here, there's this sacred space that's created.
for us to both do some healing. It's not just about, you know, the person laying on the bed or sitting in the chair talking to spirit that gets it. I get it too. And that to me is super, super cool. I think it's just one of the funnest things. I literally get to witness people transforming and literally changing their lives.
Nicola Harris (40:11.476)
Mm. Like, yeah, little teary. Like, I'm not going to lie, as you're explaining that. Because I think what an example and what a ripple effect you being able to say that you are living like your own heaven on Earth. Like, how that impacts everyone who experiences your energy from that place.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (40:14.584)
So I think I have arrived.
Nicola Harris (40:42.366)
And I just think like, I mean, I feel the same way in so many ways. And it's not to say that everything is perfect, because again, what a const, like that's just such a false construct as well, is that of course there's other things that you might want to experience, but that you are so grounded and so in alignment within yourself, that you navigate the world with that energy. And I just think like, fuck, if there is anything that is,
Kellie - Soul Restyled (41:07.33)
Yeah. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (41:12.104)
such an incredibly powerful legacy. It is that. It is that. Right? And like, I want that for everyone.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (41:18.37)
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And it's, And you know, it's not that I have, you know, some of the conversations that happen between Spurring and a client, they're not all super happy and...
La la la, they're actually, very deep conversations and, you know, we need to look at the nitty gritties of life to get to this other side. And, you know, I congratulate the people who come to sit with me and be with me because by the time they get to me.
I think they realize that they are looking for something different. They want something different. They need something different Earth side. And I'm lucky enough to be on the journey with them.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (42:18.178)
And that for me is full reward. That's all I can ask for.
Nicola Harris (42:22.346)
Such a privilege. Yeah, such a privilege. my gosh. So one last question for you. That I was just thinking into the expansion process because I love nervous system expansion work. think nervous system healing work is critical. That's the starting place. But then there's an expansion piece that allows us to move beyond where we find ourselves right now.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (42:25.196)
Yes, yes. Yeah.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (42:32.236)
Yikes.
Nicola Harris (42:51.198)
What would be one thing, one little edge that you are excited to start expanding into in this next season of your life?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (43:05.815)
in my business.
Nicola Harris (43:06.538)
Sure, or life. Doesn't matter. To me, feel like life and business is just interchangeable in so many ways.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (43:14.126)
Yeah, I think for me, and Spirit's been leading me into this space for probably a year and a half now, and it's more of the physical healing of people.
to get, it's almost like reverse work. So doing physical healing with them to get back into their mental and emotional state. And it's like, it's not reverse psychology, but it's like reverse, like if we can fix what is hurting in the body, the mental and emotional state becomes less and we can then start to do the work up here and in here. If we can fix, if we can heal a physical ailment.
Nicola Harris (43:42.4)
Mmm.
Nicola Harris (43:52.256)
year.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (43:56.162)
That's what I'm leaning into. So I've been working on it for about a year now. And it's coming in. It's coming in hot. So I'm going to be spending some time on that in the next couple of weeks and actually dropping a new program. So yeah. Yeah.
Nicola Harris (44:12.284)
that's so exciting, Kelly. I'm so excited for everyone who gets to receive that because again, because you are giving from this place, you're serving from this place of like such deep alignment in your gifts, in who you are and the place that you are in your life. I just think that that's so potent and so important for anyone who holds space for others, really.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (44:36.59)
Yeah, yeah. And just, you know, from my own experience, if I can offer anybody out there who is starting a business or is building a business and or doesn't know how to do it, always come from the heart space. Come from.
You know, for me, I need to experience things in myself before I can share it with other people. I need to know that it works like a charm before I release it. And if you can come from that space, if you have, you know, that much like that much drive and passion for what you do, there's no stopping you.
Nicola Harris (45:06.879)
Mm-hmm.
Nicola Harris (45:18.432)
It's so true. It's so true. Yeah. Yeah. When you're in that alignment, it's just like, it's a flow. And it's not to say that you don't hit bumps along the way, but you know, there's always going to be things that come up, but it is just a groundedness that feels so whole in many ways.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (45:23.246)
You know this.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (45:33.144)
Totally.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (45:41.812)
okay.
Nicola Harris (45:42.73)
Kelly, thank you so much for spending this time and offering your deep, deep wisdom for everyone who is listening. I know that they're gonna come away with many, many nuggets. And that's always the goal is that they can practically put things into place and then also just reflect to say, okay, where can I lean into this? So where is the best place for us to find more information out about you?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (46:07.534)
Okay, so my website is solrestyle.com. Instagram is where I'm most active, at solrestyled. Yeah, shoot me a DM and let's just connect. Let's get you moving.
Nicola Harris (46:22.4)
amazing. You will not regret it. Anyone who books any time with you, whether it's Reiki, whether it's a psychic reading, come to a program, solstice event, it doesn't matter. Just, you know, definitely come into Kelly's world. It will just, it will nourish you on such a phenomenally deep level. So thank you for holding space for me over the years and for joining me. I am so excited for this next chapter for you. So thank you so much.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (46:48.75)
Thank you so much and I'm equally as excited for you. I can't wait to, I love to be, I'd love to be here with you. So just thank you.
Nicola Harris (46:54.88)
Mm-hmm. All right, everyone, we will talk to you all next week.
Nicola Harris (47:08.563)
Nailed it, girlfriend.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (47:12.898)
Okay, good. It was good. It was good.
Nicola Harris (47:16.32)
That was good. That was great. You drop in all these like, I was like, dang, that's amazing. I love it when I'm having like aha moments during these conversations. I'm like, shit, yes, that's exactly it.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (47:21.87)
you
Kellie - Soul Restyled (47:26.9)
Yay!
Kellie - Soul Restyled (47:36.994)
I think that sometimes when I also am sessions with clients, I'm like, shit's gold. And I'm literally like, I need to write this down for myself.
Nicola Harris (47:45.416)
Yeah. Right? You're like, what just is happening here? Something tectonically is moving. I can feel it. It's just like, yeah, yeah, that was so great. So thank you so much for taking the time. I really appreciate it. This will be aired next Thursday.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (47:54.382)
Right?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:01.082)
my goodness, thank you.
Nicola Harris (48:05.513)
and I will make sure that I tag you in it. I'll probably add like the clips, I'll add you as a collaborator so that you can just, you know, accept it and it'll post your feed as well if you want to. And yeah, and then we're good to go.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:10.019)
Yes.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:13.826)
Please.
Yes, absolutely.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:21.506)
This was so great. So great.
Nicola Harris (48:21.908)
This was so great. I can't wait for Friday. I can't wait to give you like a in-person hug and experience whatever you got cooking up over there because it sounds juicy. yeah, I'm excited. Yeah, I can't wait. I'm excited. Can't wait. All right, my friend.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:26.977)
Ugh.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:34.382)
Yeah, it's gonna be so good. I have tissues for people. It's gonna be good. Awesome. This was so great. Thank you so much for the opportunity. Just awesome.
Nicola Harris (48:44.72)
no, I'm so glad you were a part of it. You're like my first guest, and I just was excited to kick it off with you. Yeah, OK.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:50.007)
And actually, I'm just.
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:54.318)
We're going to take a photo of us, okay?
Kellie - Soul Restyled (48:58.996)
One, two, three. Here we go. Is it okay if I post that today and say we're doing some things? Okay. Beauty. Okay, have the best day. We'll chat soon. Bye.
Nicola Harris (49:01.952)
Of course, absolutely it is. You post it. All right, my love, have a beautiful day and I will see you tomorrow. Okay. Yeah, thanks. Bye.
